Qurbani
The Ibaadat of Zul Hijjah
Thousands of Muslims all over the world will be celebrating Eid ul Adhaa by slaughtering animals in the name of Allah Ta’ala.
The days of Qurbaani are the 10th, 11th and 12th of Zul Hijjah.
The ibaadat of Qurbaani once again reminds us of the incident of Hadhrat Ibraaheem (alayhis salaam) and Hadhrat Ismaaeel (alayhis salaam).
The object of Qurbaani is to attain Taqwa (that is, we should be conscious of Allah Ta’ala all the time).
We should request our parents and grand-parents to also sacrifice an animal at home this qurbaani, so we can witness this great ibaadat.
Virtues of Qurbaani
Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) has said: “There is no deed that is more beloved to Allah Ta’ala on Eid ul Adha than spilling the blood of an animal. (i.e. making Qurbaani). Verily the qurbaani animal will come on the day of Qiyaamah with it’s horns, hooves and it’s hair (to be weighed).”
Once, the Sahaabah (radiyallahu anhum) asked Nabi (sallallahu alayhi wasallam), “O Nabi of Allah, what is Qurbaani?” He replied, “It is the sunnah of your father Ibraaheem (alayhis salaam).” They then asked, “What benefit will we get from it?” He replied, “A reward for every hair of the sacrificed animal.” They then asked, “And what about an animal with wool?” Nabi sallallahu alayhi wasallam replied, “A reward for every fibre of wool.”
Once Nabi (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) told his beloved daughter Hadhrat Fatimah (radiyallahu anha), “Stand by your animal when it is being slaughtered, for verily all your past sins will be forgiven with (the fall of) the first drop of blood.
Hajj
Alhamdulillah, we have now entered the months of Hajj. Many of the Hujjaaj (people going for hajj) have already left and will only be returning after Eidul Adha.
Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) has said that the entire building of Islam is built upon five pillars, i.e. Imaan, Salaah, Zakaat, Fasting and Hajj.
Hajj is the fifth pillar of Islam. Allah Ta’ala has made Hajj compulsory once in a lifetime upon all Muslims who can afford to go.
The days of Hajj are the 8th, 9th, 10th, 11th and 12th of Zul Hijjah. During the 5 days of Hajj, the Hujjaaj go to different places like Makkah, Mina, Arafah and Muzdalifah where they perform some special acts of Ibaadah.
We should make dua to Allah Ta’ala to also take us for Hajj one day, inshaAllah.
Virtues of Hajj
Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) has said, “The one who performs hajj for the sake of pleasing Allah Ta’ala and does not utter any evil word while performing his Hajj, nor commits any evil deed, he shall return from it free of sins like the day his mother gave birth to him.”
Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) also said, “Surely there shall be no reward for an accepted hajj except Jannah.”
A Brief Description of The Five Days of Hajj:

What Can we do to get the Reward of Hajj
ISHRAAQ SALAAH:
Hadhrat Anas Ibn Malik (radiyallahu anhu) reports that Nabi (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said:
“Whoever offers his Fajr Salaah with jamaat, and then remains seated remembering Allah Ta’ala until after sunrise, and then he offers two rakaats of salaah (Ishraaq), will receive the reward of one complete Haj and one complete ‘Umrah”
Nabi (sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) repeated the word “complete” thrice. (Tirmidhi: 586)
SERVING ONE’S MOTHER:
Hadhrat Anas (radiyallahu anhu) reports that a man came to Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) and said: “I wish to participate in Jihaad, but I cannot afford it.”
Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) enquired if any of his parents were alive, to which he said: “Yes! My mother is alive”
Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said:
“Show Allah how you serve her. If you do so (sincerely) you will be like a: Haji, a Mu’tamir (one doing ‘Umrah) and a Mujaahid (One striving in Allah’s way).”
The above Hadith proves that one who cares for his/her parents, will indeed receive the rewards of Haj, ‘Umrah and striving in Allah’s way.
The First 10 Days of Zul Hijjah
Aamaal-e-Saalihah (Good Deeds) most beloved to Allah
عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ رَضِيَ اللّٰهُ عَنْهُمَا قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُوْلُ اللّٰهِ صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: مَا مِنْ أَيَّامٍ الْعَمَلُ الصَّالِحُ فِيْهِنَّ أَحَبُّ إِلَى اللّٰهِ مِنْ هَذِهِ الْأَيَّامِ الْعَشَرَةِ قَالُوْا يَا رَسُوْلَ اللّٰهِ وَلَا الْجِهَادُ فِيْ سَبِيْلِ اللّٰهِ؟ قَالَ وَلَا الْجِهَادُ فِيْ سَبِيْلِ اللّٰهِ إِلَّا رَجُلٌ خَرَجَ بِنَفْسِهِ وَمَالِهِ فَلَمْ يَرْجِعْ مِنْ ذَلِكَ بِشَيْءٍ . رَوَاهُ التِّرْمِذِىُّ
Hadhrat Ibn Abbaas (RA) narrates that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said; “There are no days wherein good deeds are more beloved to Allah Ta’ala than on these ten days [of Zul Hijjah]. [The Sahaabah (RA)] enquired, ‘O Rasulullah, not even Jihaad in the path of Allah.’ He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam replied, ‘Not even Jihaad in the path of Allah except for that person who went out with his life and his wealth and did not return.’” [Tirmizi #757]
Fasting and staying awake at night in Ibaadah
عَنْ أَبِيْ هُرَيْرَةَ رَضِيَ اللّٰهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُوْلُ اللّٰهِ صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: مَا مِنْ أَيَّامٍ أَحَبُّ إِلَى اللّٰهِ أَنْ يُتَعَبَّدَ لَهُ فِيْهَا مِنْ عَشْرِ ذِي الْحِجَّةِ يَعْدِلُ صِيَامُ كُلِّ يَوْمٍ مِنْهَا بِصِيَامِ سَنَةٍ وَقِيَامُ كُلِّ لَيْلَةٍ مِنْهَا بِقِيَامِ لَيْلَةِ الْقَدْرِ . رَوَاهُ التِّرْمِذِيُّ
Hadhrat Abu Hurayrah (RA) narrates that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said; “There are no days wherein Allah Ta’ala loves that He be worshipped, more than the first ten days of Zul Hijjah. Fasting on one day (in these ten days) equals to the fasting of one year and staying awake at night [in ibaadah] equals to staying awake in Ibaadah on the night of Qadar.” [Tirmizi # 758]
From this Hadith we understand the importance of dedicating our time and effort during these days in the ibaadah (worship) of Allah Ta’ala. Who has the ability of fasting for so many years? If a Muslim makes an effort to fast on these mubaarak (blessed) days, he will receive the reward of fasting for so many years.
We try our best to find Laylatul Qadar in the last ten days of the mubaarak month of Ramadhaan. People all over the world sit in I’tikaaf with the hope of finding this Mubaarak night. At the end of Ramadhaan discussions ensue as to which night of Ramadhaan they felt was Laylatul Qadar. However, the exact night of Laylatul Qadar is known only to Allah Ta’ala. In the above mentioned Hadith, Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is clearly telling us that Ibaadah done on these ten nights equals to the Ibaadah performed on Laylatul Qadar. How unfortunate will we be if we do not take advantage of this golden opportunity and gain great sawaab. May Allah Ta’ala bless us with the Taufeeq (ability) of spending our time profitably in these ten days. Aameen.
Zikr of Tasbeeh, Tahmeed, Takbeer and Tahleel
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has encouraged us in these days to recite Tasbeeh (Subhanallah), Tahmeed (Alhamdulillah), Tahleel (Laa-ilaha illallah) and Takbeer (Allahu Akbar) in abundance.[1]
In these ten days one should, as far as possible, keep the zikr of the third kalimah on his tongue. Recite this zikr as much as possible. Whilst walking, working, driving, lying down, etc. keep on reciting this kalimah. You will be rewarded immensely for this.
Clipping of nails and trimming of hair
عَنْ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ رَضِيَ اللّٰهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: قَالَ رَسُوْلُ اللّٰهِ صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: إِذَا دَخَلَتِ الْعَشْرُ وَأَرَادَ أَحَدُكُمْ أَنْ يُضَحِّيَ فَلَا يَمَسَّ مِنْ شَعْرِهِ وَبَشَرِهِ شَيْئًا . رَوَاهُ مُسلم
Hadhrat Umm-e-Salamah (RA) reports that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said: “When the ten days [of Zul Hijjah] commence and any of you intend to make Qurbaani, then he should not remove his hair or trim his nails.” [Muslim: # 1977]
To practice on this Hadith, one should clip his nails and remove his hair before the crescent of Zul Hijjah is sighted. Thereafter, for the ten days of Zul Hijjah, he should neither trim his hair nor clip his nails until he has completed performing his Qurbaani. This act according to the Fuqahaa has been declared as Mustahab.
Fasting on the 9th (Day of Arafah)
عَنْ أَبِيْ قَتَادَةَ رَضِيَ اللّٰه عَنْهُ قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُوْلُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَ سَلَّمَ صِيَامُ يَوْمِ عَرَفَةَ إِنِّيْ أَحْتَسِبُ عَلَى اللهِ أَنْ يُّكَفِّرَ السَّنَةَ الَّتِيْ قَبْلَهُ وَالَّتِيْ بَعْدَهُ وَ فِيْ رِوَايَةٍ اَنَّ رَسُوْلَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَ سَلَّمَ قَالَ مَنْ صَامَ يَوْمَ عَرَفَةَ غُفِرَ لَهُ سَنَةٌ أَمَامَهُ وَسَنَةٌ بَعْدَهُ
Hadhrat Abu Qatadah (RA) narrates that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, “One who fasts on the day of Arafah, I have hope in Allah Ta’ala that He will forgive his sins of the previous year as well as his sins of the next year.” [Tirmizi # 749]
In this Hadith Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mentions the virtue of fasting on the 9th of Zul Hijjah. If anyone is unable to fast on the first 8 days of Zul Hijjah, he should at least try to fast on the 9th of Zul Hijjah and have all his sins forgiven. How merciful is Allah Ta’ala! A person fasts for one day and Allah Ta’ala, The Most Kind, The Most Merciful, forgives all his sins for the past year as well as the coming year.
One Day Equals to a 1000 Days
Hadhrat Anas (RA) has mentioned that the Sahaabah (RA) would say that each of the first ten days of Zul Hijjah is equal to one thousand days in virtue, while the 9th (day of Arafah) is equal to ten thousand days in virtue.
Staying awake on the night of Eid
Hadhrat Shaikhul Hadeeth, Moulana Muhammad Zakariyyah (rahmatullahi alayh) has mentioned the following Hadith in his famous book Fazaail-e-Ramadhaan,
عَنْ عُبَادَةَ بْنِ الصَّامِتِ رَضِيَ اللّٰهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّ رَسُوْلَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: مَنْ أَحْيَا لَيْلَةَ الْفِطْرِ وَالْاَضْحَى، لَمْ يَمُتْ قَلْبُهُ يَوْمَ تَمُوْتُ الْقُلُوْبُ
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, “Whoever remains awake for Ibaadah on the nights before both the Eids, his heart shall not die on that day when hearts shall die.” [At Targheeb wat Tarheeb # 1655 & 1657]
This night too should be appreciated. Most of us enjoy our sleep on this night, whereas this night too is a night that should be spent in Ibaadah. “His heart shall not die” means that at the time when evil will overpower all, his heart shall stay alive (guarded against evil). It may also refer to the time when the Soor (trumpet) shall be blown to announce the day of Qiyaamah on that day he will not become unconscious.
[1] At Targheeb wat Tarheeb # 1782
Loyal in Life and Death – Sayyiduna Sa’d bin Rabee (RA)
Loyal in Life and Death
Sayyiduna Sa’d bin Rabee’ (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) was a distinguished Sahaabi of Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam). He belonged to the Khazraj tribe of Madeenah Munawwarah and was among those who pledged allegiance to Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) during the pledge of ‘Aqabah. Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) also appointed him as one of the twelve leaders of the Ansaar. (Usdul Ghaabah vol. 2, pg. 293)
When the Muhaajireen arrived in Madeenah Munawwarah, Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) established the bond of brotherhood among the Sahaabah (radhiyallahu ‘anhum). He paired Sayyiduna Sa’d bin Rabee’ (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) with Sayyiduna ‘Abdur Rahmaan bin ‘Auf (radhiyallahu ‘anhu). Sayyiduna Sa’d (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) honoured this brotherhood with exceptional generosity, going far beyond what anyone could have expected.
Sayyiduna Sa’d (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) said to his muhaajir brother, Sayyiduna ‘Abdur Rahmaan bin ‘Auf (radhiyallahu ‘anhu), “I am among the wealthiest of the Ansaar. I will divide my wealth between us, giving you half of it. I have two wives, choose whichever of them you prefer, and I will divorce her. When her ‘iddah ends, you may marry her. Also choose whichever of my two gardens you wish.”
Sayyiduna ‘Abdur Rahmaan bin ‘Auf (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) replied, “May Allah bless you in your family and in your wealth. I have no need for your wife or your garden. I did not accept Islam for this!” Instead, he asked Sayyiduna Sa’d (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) to direct him to the marketplace so that he could engage in trade and earn through his own effort. (Saheeh Bukhaari #2048, #2049 & #3781 and Al-Mu’jamul Kabeer #5407)
A few years later, during the Battle of Uhud, Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) asked the Sahaabah (radhiyallahu ‘anhum), “Who will bring me news of Sa’d bin Rabee’ (radhiyallahu ‘anhu), for I had seen twelve spears aimed at him?” One Sahaabi responded, “I will, O Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam)”. (According to various narrations, a few Sahaabah carried out this task, viz. Sayyiduna Ubayy bin Ka’b, Sayyiduna Zaid bin Thaabit and Sayyiduna Muhammad bin Maslamah [radhiyallahu ‘anhum]).
Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) instructed, “If you see him, convey my salaams to him, and tell him that the Messenger of Allah is inquiring about him.”
The Sahaabi moved among the martyrs calling out Sayyiduna Sa’d’s (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) name repeatedly. Sayyiduna Sa’d (radhiyallahu ‘anhu), however, did not respond immediately, being in the throes of death. When the Sahaabi said, “Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) has sent me to you”, Sayyiduna Sa’d (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) faintly replied, “I am among the deceased”.
Eventually, the Sahaabi reached Sayyiduna Sa’d (radhiyallahu ‘anhu), who lay in the throes of death. His body bore seventy wounds from spears, swords, and arrows. The Sahaabi conveyed to him the message of Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam), passing on his salaams and inquiring about his condition.
Sayyiduna Sa’d (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) responded, “Peace be upon Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) and upon you as well. Convey to Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam): ‘O Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam)! May Allah reward you, on our behalf, with the best reward He has ever granted a Nabi for his Ummah. I perceive the fragrance of Jannah!’” He further stated, “I have been speared twelve times.”
He then instructed the Sahaabi to inform his people, the Ansaar (radhiyallahu ‘anhum): “There is no excuse before Allah for any of you if harm reaches Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) while there is an eye among you that still blinks (i.e. remains alive)!” After delivering these words, Sayyiduna Sa’d (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) breathed his last.
The Sahaabi returned and informed Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) of what had occurred. Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) praised Sayyiduna Sa’d (radhiyallahu ‘anhu), saying: “May Allah have mercy upon him. He wished well for Allah and His Messenger, both in life and death.” (Muwatta Imaam Maalik #1691, Mustadrak Haakim #4906, Sharhuz Zurqaani vol. 2, pg. 445 and Usdul Ghabah vol. 2 pg. 294)
Sayyiduna Sa’d (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) left behind two daughters. (Sunan Abi Dawood #2892) On one occasion, Sayyiduna ‘Umar (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) visited Sayyiduna Abu Bakr (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) who had spread out a cloth for a young girl to sit on. The girl was one of Sayyiduna Sa’d’s (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) daughters. When Sayyiduna ‘Umar (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) asked about her identity, Sayyiduna Abu Bakr (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) replied, “She is the daughter of a man who was better than both of us.” When Sayyiduna ‘Umar (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) asked him who he was referring to, Sayyiduna Abu Bakr (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) replied, “A man who passed away during the time of Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) and had prepared his abode in Jannah, while you and I remained (in this world).” (Tabraani – Majma‘uz Zawaa-id #15685 and Mustadrak Haakim #6553)
In another narration, Sayyiduna Abu Bakr (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) further praised Sayyiduna Sa’d (radhiyallahu ‘anhu), stating, “He was among the leaders (appointed by Rasulullah [sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam]) on the day of ‘Aqabah, participated in the Battle of Badr, and was martyred at Uhud.” (Seerah Ibni Hishaam vol. 3, pg. 95)
Lessons:
1. Sayyiduna Sa’d (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) always wished well and remained loyal to Allah Ta‘ala and Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam). This was clearly reflected in his actions. While alive, he was prepared to give away his most precious possessions to uphold the brotherhood established by Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam). Even on his deathbed, his primary concern was the well-being of Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam). His concern for Deen and everything related to it prevailed over any concern for his own well-being. We too must value our Deen, making it our greatest priority and willingly sacrificing for its sake.
2. The Sahaabah (radhiyallahu ‘anhum) fought valiantly, shedding their blood so that the Deen of Allah Ta‘ala may rise and flourish. They will be resurrected on the Day of Qiyaamah with their bodies bearing the marks of their sacrifice, thereby attaining the highest ranks in Jannah. Even in this world, martyrs are granted glimpses of the bounties of Jannah, as exemplified by Sayyiduna Sa’d (radhiyallahu ‘anhu). The temporary suffering of this world is insignificant compared to the rewards Allah Ta‘ala bestows upon the martyrs.
3. Sayyiduna Sa’d bin Rabee’ (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) earned the praise and du‘aa of Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) through his sacrifice and fervour for Deen. One who sacrifices sincerely for the cause of Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) becomes deserving of the pleasure of Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam).
Qualities of a Teacher – by: Hadhrat Moulana Yunus Patel Saahib (RA)
The importance of doing Home Ta’leem
Please find attached article by Hadhrat Mufti Ebrahim Salejee Saahib (DB)
Topic: The importance of doing Ta’leem daily at home
This topic cannot be overemphasized, especially in this holiday period when there are so many fitnahs around us, we should make a full out effort to do ta’leem diligently at home with our families. This is a means of great protection for our Imaan.
The Importance of Ta’leem at Home
Bismihi Ta’ala
A Muslim home is not a place where there are only frames with Aayats of the Qur-aan, Ahaadith or Arabic inscriptions on them or a Kalimah sticker on the front of the door or some taweez’s hung up here and there. A Muslim home is really a place in which 5 times salaah takes place (by the females and males in the masjid), Nafl Namaaz take place, tilaawat (recitation) of the Qur-aan Shareef, Zikrullah, duas, muraqabah (meditation) and very importantly TA’LEEM takes place. Good Islamic characteristics are also displayed by all inhabitants of the home.
Hadhrat Rabi’ah bin Ka’ab radiallahu anhu
Hadhrat Rabi’ah bin Ka’ab radiallahu anhu was blessed with the honour of accepting Islam at a very young age. From the time he set his eyes on the blessed countenance of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he was overcome with such love which permeated his entire self. One day he said to himself, ‘What is wrong with you, why do you not present yourself as a servant to Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam?’
Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam hounored him by accepting him as a Khaadim and from that day on, he would always be on call day and night. It was his habit that during the early hours of the morning, he would present water to Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to make whudu for tahajjud salaah. On one occasion, Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to him, “Ask what you desire and I will give it to you” He took a moment to think and replied’ “give me some time to think over it Ya Rasulullah” Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam gladly obliged.
This was a youngster who had no wealth nor family. He was poor with no worldy status. If it was one of us, we would ask for some material or physical comfort. But this was a Sahabi after all, whose focus was deeply driven by the strength of Imaan and the reality of the hereafter. He realized that this world is temporary and the eternal comfort of the hereafter is the ultimate goal. With this is mind, he sets off to present the most beautiful, intelligent and wise request. “Ya Rasullullah, Please make dua that I am your close companion in Jannah!” Rasullullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was most impressed by his answer and asked him that who advised you to ask for this. Hadhrat Rabi’ah radiallahu anhu replied that I thought to myself that I should choose that which is eternal over that which is temporary.
Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam then instructed him to exert himself in Salaah as this will aid in achieving this lofty position of being the companion of Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in Jannah. Not too long after this incident, Rasullullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam called him one day and asked him if he wanted to get married. He replied that he didn’t want to be diverted from the service of Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and that he also did not possess any wealth to give as Mahr. This happened on two occasions until he realized that Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was in fact alluding that he should marry. Rasullullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam arranged for him to marry a woman from the ansaar and his mahr was also taken care-off by a prominent Sahaabi from the Banu Aslam tribe. If that wasn’t enough, even his walima was done with no effort from his side. This is how Allah Ta’ala takes care of his servants when they dedicate themselves to His obedience.
Thereafter Allah Ta’ala opened up the wealth of this world to him as well. On one occasion, he had a small dispute with Abu Bakr radiallahu anhu regarding a date palm which both had laid claim too. In the discussion, Abu Bakr radiallahu anhu said something undesirable to him. Immediately Siddeeq Akbar felt bad and insisted that he retaliate with the same wording. Rabi’ah radiallahu anhu refused out of respect and honour for the position of Hadhrat Abu Bakr radiallahu anhu. When the matter was presented to Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he was most impressed by his conduct and then asked him to seek forgiveness on behalf of Abu Bakr radiallahu anhu. He glady did so whilst tears flowed down the cheeks of Abu Bakr radiallahu anhu.
When we take a look at these incidents of Rabi’ah radiallahu anhu, we should take lesson that when Allah Ta’ala showers His grace upon his servant, then none can stop the favours which rain down in this world and the next. Together with that, the person is inspired to behave in a manner which is most pleasing to Rasullulah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, which ultimately is the pleasure of Allah Ta’ala.
“The Fortunate One”
When our beloved Nabi Muhammad Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam blessed the city of Madinah Munawwarah with his mubarak presence after the long journey of Hijrah (migration), there was a young man, Julaibeeb radiallahu anhu, who was instantly captivated by the sight of the best of creation. The love of Nabi Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam penetrated deep into his heart immediately. This youngster had no wealth or family, so he took-up residence in the Musjid of Rasullulah Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam amongst the As-haabus Suffah.
The food he received was either from the gifts received by Nabi Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam or the sadaqa given by the Sahaaba. He was a well-liked youngster who was easy going and jovial. One day, Nabi Kareem Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asked him, “Do you not want to marry oh Julaibeeb?” Julaibeeb replied, “who will marry me oh Rasulullah Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam? I am a poor youngster with no money to pay Mahr or support a wife.”
Just take a moment to marvel at the beautiful response of Nabi Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He said to Julaibeeb, “I will find you a pious wife and Allah will take care of you both”
It was the habit of the Sahaaba that when any of their daughters were of marriageable age, they would first offer her in marriage to Nabi Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam out of respect and honour. Some time had passed and no one had come forward to Nabi Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam who would be suitable for Julaibeeb. Therefore He sent a proposal on behalf of Julaibeeb to an Ansaari Sahaabi asking him for his daughters hand in marriage. Both husband and wife were extremely hesitant and thought of excuses they could present in order to refuse this proposal. They felt that Julaibeeb was a man of no status or wealth whereas their daughter was of a high social standing. Whilst discussing the way forward, this intelligent young girl insisted to her parents that she will marry Julaibeeb as she refused to turn away the suggestion of Nabi Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
Nabi Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was so pleased by her acceptance that he made a special dua for her, “Oh Allah, Engulf her in goodness and do not allow her life go in vain”. Thereafter He got them married. Julaibeeb was overjoyed and thrilled but before he could even spend time with his new bride, the call for Jihaad was announced. Julaibeeb immediately acceded to the call of Nabi Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, prepared himself for battle and left his new bride without even spending a night in her company.
After the battle was over, Nabi Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asked if anyone was missing as per His usual habit. The Sahaaba replied in the negative. However, Nabi Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, “I do not see Julaibeeb, Look for him!” They searched for him in the battlefield until they eventually found him. He had killed 7 Mushrikeen on his way to meet Allah as a Shaheed (matyr).
Rasullullah Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam stood by his side and repeated the following words three time, “he is from me and I am from him”. These words coming from the most Mubarak of lips sends shivers down the spine. Could he have asked for anything more?
Shortly thereafter, the Sahaaba dug his grave. Nabi Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam stood up, carried Julaibeeb in his Mubarak arms and lowered him into his final resting place. Ohh how fortunate you are oh Julaibeeb!
